As an astrologer, I am often asked about the various aspects that can be found between two people’s birth charts. One of the more popular (and controversial) aspects is the Sun square Sun synastry. This aspect indicates a strong potential for conflict and volatility between two people. In this post, I will explore what this aspect means and how it plays out in relationships.
What is Sun square Sun synastry all about?
Sun square Sun synastry is an astrological chemistry between two individuals that can sometimes be filled with passion and competitiveness. This relationship can sometimes produce a dynamic tension that fuels competitiveness, making the two people involved push each other to reach their full potential. It is important to remember that Sun square Sun synastry does not necessarily mean that the relationship will be a negative one, although it often signals an intense journey between two powerful individuals. With some flexibility and understanding, this kind of chemistry can be transformed into something positive and productive, while still acknowledging its competitive nature.
How can this type of conflict manifest in a relationship between two people with this astrological aspect between their suns?
When two people who have an astrological aspect between their suns enter into a relationship, ego wars can easily arise. This type of conflict is based on the ego of each person, where personal desires and needs are strong and it is assumed that the other person must sacrifice for one’s own ego. In these ego wars, communication is often affected negatively and leads to a downward spiral in the relationship. Each partner may be seeking to prove their point regardless of how it impacts the other. If such conflict becomes too entrenched and unresolved it may lead to a breakdown in trust and ultimately, to the end of the relationship.
What are some tips for managing and resolving this type of conflict when it arises between you and your partner (or anyone else in your life)?
Managing and resolving conflicts between yourself and a partner or other person in your life can be challenging but is possible with the right approach. To ensure that you are able to handle disputes well, it’s important to stay composed and communicate openly with one another. Before having any type of discussion regarding the conflict, ask yourself: What do I want out of this conversation? Most importantly, set clear boundaries and stick to them while also being respectful of your partner’s point of view. If tempers flare during disagreements, take a break from the conversation until each party has had time to calm down and formulate an argument with more clarity. It is also beneficial to completely withdraw from negative emotions as this will help you get closer to rational solutions for resolving the problem at hand.
Why is it important to understand and be aware of this potential source of tension in relationships, even if you don’t have this aspect in your own chart?
Knowing astrological compatibility can be a powerful tool to help people in relationships understand potential sources of tension. Even if you and your partner don’t have any major conflicting aspects in your natal charts, it’s important to recognize that all types of opposing energies can still cause friction in a relationship. Astrology is an effective way to identify problems before they arise and can give both partners insight into how these varying energies might affect the dynamics of their relationship. Armed with this knowledge, couples can work together to come up with creative solutions that cater to their individual needs. By understanding and being aware of potential sources of tension, even without a basis in astrology, relationships are more likely to thrive in the long term.
How can you use this knowledge to create a more harmonious and understanding relationship with someone who does have this aspect in their chart, whether that’s your romantic partner or not?
When trying to create a more harmonious and understanding relationship with someone who does have an aspect in their chart, it is important to remember that everyone’s astrological chart is unique. It is essential to show respect by understanding the other person’s viewpoint, no matter how different it may be from yours. Taking the time to get informed about astrology and familiarize yourself with what certain signs and aspects mean will pay off in the end. Asking questions and listening are also important steps toward building trust and developing a connected relationship with that person. Spending quality time together to get to know each other better can also lead to a stronger bond between two people. This knowledge serves as a way to create a deeper understanding of your partner or friend on an entirely new level.
In conclusion, it’s important to be aware of the potential for conflict that exists between two people when they have Sun square Sun synastry in their charts. This aspect can create tension and volatility in a relationship, but there are some things you can do to manage and resolve the conflict when it arises. By understanding this source of tension, you can create a more harmonious and understanding relationship with someone who has this aspect in their chart.
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